Thread:DJ MC CJ/@comment-252417-20130607205857/@comment-252417-20130608205047

I think the problem started when made the comment “Brother, I hate it when I know things that others don’t.” He was obviously referring to me because I asked about something that happened on chat when I wasn’t there. I responded (I can’t remember the exact words) “Brother, I hate it when people *Orion* don’t make sense and when I try to make sense of what they’ve said they bail out by saying “I don’t want to fight.” And with that Orion left. He returned later and had a “confession” of his disabilities which I already knew about a while before. If I knew maybe I sounded inconsiderate, but this is a guy who doesn’t want to be treated any differently yet will bring it up every opportunity he gets and it’s not that hard to get one. But it’s got to the point where it’s become more of an excuse than a reason to do the things he wants and it doesn‘t matter if it doesn‘t make sense I just have to accept that. It’s also minute things that are said, but big or small I still would like to understand otherwise as I said you’re just making a live blog where people don’t have to respond. Well, Orion already has a Facebook page for that. You tell people of your disabilities so they‘re more understanding yet you don‘t want to be treated any differently. You can‘t have it both ways.

But even with all that said I’ll still get the same old response as I always as get which is Orion’s disabilities which can and has gotten really old. And apparently I need “reminding” of this every single time a misunderstanding occurs. I understand Orion disabilities, I don’t need to be lectured and talked down to every single time he mentions it. I know Orion’s issues and I take this into account. That’s why I try to understand things that he says whenever I don’t understand as I’ve already mentioned. You can act like we’ve never discussed these things CJ, but maybe that would bring more focus into it. Maybe you’ve said these things to Orion? But it’s like the guy has it out for me just because I don’t understand some things which I may add has deteriorated over the length of time I’ve know Orion which has been at least a year. I could go ass over backwards to let the misunderstandings go and most of the time I do, but somewhere along the line I apparently got the better of Orion. I’ll bring something up a second later after Orion’s said something and even that is too much to explain, even the most simplest of comment. The guy may have disabilities, but he talks to me as if I don’t know a damn thing about anything which has gotten to the point of ALL the time. There also times when he doesn’t get ME and he doesn’t say why he just says “I don’t get you Possible” and I ask why and he doesn’t say anything and I ask again so repeats “I don’t get you Possible”. It’s not until a short while later I tell him that I was covering something on another wiki’s chat which I already made damn well clear to begin with. And then there’s the time when we were talking about wrestling and other stuff. It was really quite simple and he says he doesn’t know what’s happening. I’m mean it’s pretty clear if you were following and even if you weren’t following it’s down right easy to catch up. It’s not as if we were talking about rocket science. There’s also another time when he was talking about his dogs (he’s had so many) and when something didn’t make sense I would ask him something. Maybe I spoke out of line to correct something I wasn’t quite getting at the time. He really has it in for me when I question anything. I might as well not say anything or just constantly say “uh huh” to him because as he’s said before he’ll just say things to whoever’s listening which apparently why I’ve done something wrong by questioning something.

The last thing that happened was when one of the new users brought up about 9/11 and Orion said it was a sensitive subject for him and I said (not without reasons I might add) that everything is a sensitive subject to him. He goes on to say that it was personal or something happened and I asked if it was family and he said no so I asked what was it then and he said it was personal. I said “sure Orion” I could’ve meant that any which way and so he left without a word. Later he returned and I went to him on PM and of course he brought up his disabilities and added that I was teasing him, a guy who gets very sensitive about all things. Of course I didn’t tease him. We discussed it further and I tried to make sense of what he said only for him to say I was twisting his words. After I tried to tell him I wasn’t we continued. He thinks I know nothing about him so predictably he says something that I also must know about him. Everything was fine and he ended the day.

Then we come to last night. Most of you are there and when I come on he says to me “Please don’t twist my words.“ So I responded with “whatever” (or something like that) and he further went on and also mentioned about being “the hunter” and I responded with “**** you are.“ So CJ blocks the both of us with “Let me help you both out.“ I also did call Orion the “High One” not because I apparently think he’s trying to take over chat (which I don’t and have never said that), it’s the way he talks down to me as if I don’t know anything and the fact that he’s seen and heard it all.

There’s also Orion’s personal issues that can get the chat quite down. We’ve all said something at some point, but he’s turned it into an agony aunt and I just can’t take hearing these things any longer. If you have problems with something or someone then do something about it, but you’d would rather just suffer with it.

Even after all this I bet I’ll just get the same generic reply of the countless disabilities Orion has that I apparently have never heard of and that I’ve never known that he’s had these. (I don’t mean to offend him by saying “countless”, but there’s always something new to excuse himself.)

I also get the “hunter” comment, I just find it ridiculous to hear. And I know about everything else it’s just that he doesn’t expect or want people to question anything he says or do because he pulls out the disability card.

I hope that if Orion does read this he absorbs it for what it is and not just ignore by giving me the standard generic reply of “Possible, I have this, this, this and so” because that’s just not good enough when I’ve given you (all) a thorough account of what’s happened.

What it boils down to is that I shouldn’t ask any questions if anything that Orion says doesn’t make sense and that it causes miscommunication because it’s his disabilities that is the cause of this and I should just accept the nonsense that it sometimes sounds like, because otherwise Orion will take extreme offence to that and get frustrated, as well as teasing and bullying him (the former he’s already said in chat and the latter he’s already said above), because then they would have to try to make sense of what they said each time which isn’t that much to ask for when you obviously want to talk to people and making sense may make it easier for the other person to understand what you are saying.

That’s about as much as I can say anything else and I would just be redundant (which has probably already), I hope to get my message across. I also hope that if we are on chat together again that you Orion do not tell me not do something because of what has occurred. Instead we forget this argument. Not completely so we go through this again, but so we can have a better time on chat together.

(There are a few grammatical errors that I'll fix later, but nothing that will prevent you from reading this.)