Thread:5000 Explosions and a Supernova/@comment-252417-20140128224617/@comment-252417-20140129015236

A Lotta Moms wrote: You interpreting something I was joking about as "perverted" or "vulgar" when it clearly was not, does not warrant the sorts of accusations you have made. You had no objectively justifiable reason to be offended at what I was saying. I have every reason to be offended at the obtuse claims you've made against me.

That said, I have no intention of curtailing my humor that may be strange and silly to accomodate abnormally sensitive users - be they moderators or not. On that note, I've already had several other users and administrators tell me that what I was talking about was no big deal - even funny at times. I will continue to respect the mass consensus of the community by not altering my behavior in the slightest way. Yes, I misinterpreted it, but I was there from the beginning not knowing how true you both were being. As I said in chat (if you were there and it's fine that you weren't, I'm not complaining that you weren't) if I had seen the links I would've had a better understanding but because of how you were both talking I was going to take a chance. I've already talked about this with Rummy in chat. I came posted this to begin with because of how it sounded, you made your defense and I understand, but you should understand that I had every right to make a complaint if I think there's something being talked about that shouldn't have been. I apologise that I may have offended the both of you, but I repeat that I was offended too and that's why I made a formal complaint because when I tried to make to say my view point I was joked about with. You can be offended all you want but remember what was said. I won't apologise for how it sounded and taking action for what I felt was necessary.

If you had both been straight with me to begin with last night we wouldn't be doing this. And before you say something like "I didn't need to be straight with you because I was just joking" then don't bother because it still sounded inappropriate and that's why I made this complaint to begin with.