User blog comment:DJ MC CJ/Caesar's Thoughts (Part 2)/@comment-24669562-20150925121214

I say "Amen" on the 'users with Asperger's' thing.

must be really stressful for you to have to take charge of things on this site. And I admit there needs to be rule and order everywhere. I mean we don't need to be rigid (not saying you are) but we do need order, otherwise it will be like traveling on a road with no traffic laws in place, which is scary and very inconvenient. I mean I admit I've had trouble following rules before and I still have to work on that.

Though others want to be an admin, or say they want to be, I'm not one of them. For one I don't have the smarts or maturity for it, or the tough skin for it, and I have no desire for it. That and I don't have time. And I don't think or feel I can be trusted as a leader, I mean it can be a drag to be a follower but I can imagine all the weight on your shoulders to be in charge, and I hated being head-cook in my home-ec and cooking classes and being left in charge of my sister was a very hard thing to do too. It's hard to be a follower but I know it's also harder to be a leader.

I almost asked you if you were the head admin but I retracted that because for one I didn't want to seem disrespectful and for two, I thought of two other admins like Anything'sPossibleforaPossibe (I call that one "Possible" for short) and 5000ExplosionsAndSuperNova and I think it was one of them that left me a welcome note on my message wall, I have to check. I read your prior blog before I read this one and almost left a comment on that one. I've also read your vents before, telling the admins they should be doing their jobs, which I agree with. http://arthur.wikia.com/wiki/User_blog:DJ_MC_CJ/Keith_Goes_Off!

There was mention of adding categories that shouldn't be on the Wikia. I wonder if I've been guilty of that. I also wonder what else I've been guilty of on this site so I don't do it again.

There are other Wikias that could use Admins, like Maya and Miguel Wikia http://mayaandmiguel.wikia.com/wiki/Maya_and_Miguel_Wiki and Super Why Wikia http://superwhybettersite.wikia.com/wiki/Super_Why!_Wiki and perhaps one of the Martha Speaks Wikias (http://marthaspeaks.wikia.com/wiki/Martha_Speaks_Wiki,_The_Free-Dog_Encyclopedia or http://martha-speaks.wikia.com/wiki/MarthaSpeaks_Wiki, well the latter might be just fine) Well, I could be wrong but I feel some Wikias could use more authority.

You're obviously under massive stress (if I'm not mistaken) and I agree we need to make things easier for you and we all need to do our parts. I almost comprehend the disappointment of others not being cooperative. What a not-so-wonderful world we live in!

This was not to attack you or to complain against you. I'm just, well, something.

I also agree that everyone is different, and it is not easy dealing with others with different opinions. And I've said and done things that have upset others, not just on this Wikia but elsewhere, and I wasn't trying to either but I did. My best things to do are to ignore them or try to be humble and talk nicely to them, hoping it will douse the fire, rather than fight back, although recently I someone talked disrespectfully to me on Deviant Art and I reacted the wrong way "Whoops!" I didn't cuss him out, I just told him "I don't want you to talk to me again." Then I felt bad about that and felt I needed to fix that. So I still need to work on returning evil for evil to no one and work on respecting everybody no matter what, I hate making myself just as bad as another offender, or worse than the offender and making an idiot out of myself.

I know Possible told me "You don't need to keep apologizing... you cannot please everyone" and he's right. Still, I don't want to seem like a haughty person and hate upsetting others.

I cannot promise anybody this site will be better, in fact I cannot promise anything will be better, but I agree you need less stress, and less crud (its one of the most appropriate words I could think of). We all do. I mean we're all going to get stress and crud, but if you really think about it, we don't need it ever, although I was told by one person that a measure of stress is healthy, I still don't fully understand or agree with that right now, but I know we don't need too much stress.

I hope this helped. If I went wrong anywhere in this comment, please kindly but firmly let me know.